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8/23/2018 5:28 pm |
I think you may have stumbled on something there. Maybe they are really high sex drive people that have become way to good at suppressing the urge? Or maybe they settled way lower than they should have and are just trying to get through life now?
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I have one gal I can call for a massage, cost me 70 bucks and it is just a massage. I bought a hot tub and that pretty well keeps my body operating. I have a neighbor that stops by a couple times a week to bull shit about crop prices and the weather. Other than that I might get 2-3 text a day. That and these blogs are about my only conversations and interactions. Pretty exciting huh? Anything worth doing is worth doing right
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Yes women are conditioned this way, but then so are men too. In this day & age, many are learning to ignore this conditioning too. I myself want a woman who IS very open about her desires & se uality, but have settled for one at the moment who is very repressed in public. She is getting better, but funny thing si, all her daughters (4 BTW) and all of her mature grand-daughters (3 & 3 more growing up quickly) are just the opposite of her on this subject, which embarrasses her often when they openly discuss whom has done whom and how, and the 3 grand-daughters have shared the same guys more than once, tho not at the same time. And at one time, I was told given time they wanted as well as one of the daughters, their grandma's 'find" meaning Me. So far that hasnt happened tho.
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Hi there, I don't really understand how it can be as frustrating to find a descent guy as it seems to be. Do you think that maybe your looking at the whole scenario the same way all the time and maybe a different angle might work. Seems to me by reading your blog its the same old thing when it comes to guys and sex. nothing is working for you at the moment. Maybe someone to talk to with open honest questions about whats going on, and listening to some answers might give you a different perspective on what it is you need in life at the moment. I don't know, but reading your blog sounds like your in a pretty deep rut, and its only you that can work your way out of it...just saying cuz it sounds like you have a good head on your shoulders. Well have a nice evening,!!
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8/23/2018 7:26 pm |
There are naturally low sex drive people and they seem to out number the others. Plus you believe that hobbies are more important to match than libido. I can't say hobbies are more important, there does have to be a connection of some kind before matching libidos are even discovered. Because she is hot and you can show her off to your buddies, it doesnt matter if shes a starfish. I'm well beyond petty, show her off to the guys thinking, and being a starfish wouldn't even peak an interest after the first 30 seconds of conversation. I could just talk to one of the scammers here to get the blind canned answers to everything if I didn't care about a woman being able to carry on a conversation. Women are socially conditioned to not be open with thier desires and sexuality unless she is not planning on ever being in a relationship. That just sucks, since it's really a two way street and needs to be for any of it to be any good. How many options do you have available to you for sex, massage, dates, conversation? Not many, hence why I joined here, but it has become more reading blogs than anything. If I decide to go into town all kinds of options not that I'm inclined. Dates, read above for sex answer. Conversation, a couple some are time wasters, some are actually intelligent and enjoyable but live to far away, and some are very intelligent yet stop midstream on a conversation.
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8/23/2018 7:31 pm |
"sure I can post more nudes but then you will tire of seeing the same thing again n again " OK you are starting off your post with an unfounded assumption.(I don't see that happening) As for I would get laid more if I just lowered my standards, possibly but I tried that once and it wasn't much better then masturbating. Probably just me but I really do need to like and even respect the woman I'm having sex with. (I actually like and respect the woman of my fantasies I beat off to. That would be my left hand, my right hands a bitch LO A little creativity is nice. Hooking up for sex with just anyone doesn't do it for me. As for you feeling down in the dumps today cheer up. Tomorrows a different day it will all change.
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Just for the record I don't think most guys are looking for a 10 as they get older. more so the total package,,,,,interesting, smart, common sense, whatever it is that they find attractive to them. I know its not about being a 10 and only a 10, although a 10 comes in many sizes and shapes, just like beauty. its all about that connection and when you find it....bam!!
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haha....it doesn't !!
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" I can post more nudes but then you will tire of seeing the same thing again n again . " Nope ... never happen. "How many options do you have available to you for sex, massage, dates, conversation?" None ... zip ... zero ... nada. "If you dropped your standards or preferences I bet you could get laid. Lol" Hasn't worked yet. Don't know how much lower than breathing and has a pulse I can go. AB No Bozos
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I have many. Wish I could be with ya!!
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8/25/2018 9:05 am |
aflower2c replies on 8/23/2018 8:59 pm: Now, would the dating sites work better if you werent aiming for 10's? To be fair I far more people are just using dating sites as more of a matching gsme instead of a place to find others (in my experience it has gone downhill in the last 10 yrs.) I don't know about aiming for 10's, since even if I used a scale like that they wouldn't exist. There are studies showing that people do attempt to connect well above where they normally would in real life online. You are probably right about the way dating sites are being used now compared to before. aflower2c replies on 8/23/2018 9:00 pm: But on here, you do realize that any woman looking for nsa/casual sex pretty much has thier choice of men. So in turn you have far more competition than in real life. That is very true, and with the terrible service provided here with site problems it is probably not a site I will continue with after the already paid gold runs out unless it is just to come and read blogs and such.
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8/25/2018 11:23 am |
aflower2c replies on 8/25/2018 10:11 am: I have read quite a few articles on how dating sites are designed to keep you single, plus the media pushing youth worship...men looking for under 30's. Now that I can believe the longer you're single the longer they make money from you. Oh hell no on the under 30, makes me think of the starfish comment earlier. Personally for me even in the 30's would have to be very intelligent and free thinking and able to come up with thoughts that aren't parroting the collective group think mentality that is prevalent today. Disposable society that values status and material things over a connection. Fearmongering over relationships. People in relationships for the wrong reason. Exactly.
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