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Posted:Nov 15, 2015 9:22 am
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Reminiscent. ..
Posted:May 17, 2018 12:43 pm
Last Updated:May 18, 2018 11:06 am
Dilaimer: (just to be clear I no longer meet from this site. I am able to somewhat talk about my sexuality on this site but it disgusts some of you even how much sex I desire. I am currently looking for a sex positive male to explore with but he's not on this site.) Clear? ok...

Back to my reminiing about some particularly Hot encounters
The excessive state of my libido landed me in a sex therapists office because I desire sex within a relationship.
So anyway in her determining how much of a deviant I am, she asked how mamy men I would have sex with in a day if I could. (No ever wants to hear the truth). I lied and said .
She then asked if there where 8 men in a room and they all wanted sex with you (safe, sane and consensual) would I have sex with them?.
Geesh, of course I would and it would be fkn hot.
Apparently 8 is the determining number. Lol

Where was I with this
Oh ya Hot encounters,
I did a 3 hr 5 man gb and I orgasmed plus squirted the whole time. After it was d I showered, hydrated, then wanted more sex but more mfm or mf, but settled on masturbating and sleep. Lol. The host was gracious enough to try and arrange a 'sleep over' after the next insatiable event but no man stepped up. Lol!

Then I started to think about the long slow bjs with prostate massage and how wet that got me... thinking about the very few men I have met with that enjoyed this. They where dripping pre-cum...and it was sweet to taste!

Ah...and the bondage and strapon . The primal feeling I get from penetration! (Making me wet as I write...)

That rare dragon that could fuck several times in 24 hrs!! I used to drive 4 hrs for that! He was also a tentative lover, open to new things, and had great recovery for over 40.

My ex-casual with a 8.5" thick cock that could fuck for hrs and was into giving just as much as receiving pleasure. If I told him I'm coming through town after work and to be ready he would be standing at the door wet from his shower waiting for me... hmm.... yep

The Bad dates far out weigh the good, but it's the great memories that keep me looking. Lol. I rarely come across sex positive men, at least s that are open to women over 40, but they are out there ....somewhere over the Rainbow.

I miss being able to share my desires and fantasies but it's not good for me to have those thoughts all the time. I just got my hyper state of arousal under control and lately my ladywood has been looking for some attention, so the internal conflict rages on. But when you have to search for a relationship it's best to keep my desires on these pages instead of where a new guy would see them. I have definitely lost a few guys once they realized I actually want/desire lots of sex with him, and/or that I'm into kink. Lol

Thing with being al -> it lends to the mind wandering to keep itself amused.

Where is that man that I can say that to?^^^
And have him not judge me harshly. Funny that my sex therapist insists that there are men over 40 out there looking to explore, but she doesn't understand that they are looking for younger hotter women. It doesn't matter how confident you are, how open, .... you still need to be hot.

Ok this heat is getting to me now the humidity is rising.
...I was doing so well at the top of the blog then my frustration came back.
::back to happy place. ::
Bewbs just cos...
Posted:May 17, 2018 10:52 am
Last Updated:May 18, 2018 6:52 am
Sexy bloggers the vanilla dating site is an awesome reminder of how the majority of people are - vanilla, maddona/whore ideals, strangely repressed in a hypersexual society...

I chat a bit about kink on there because I'm trying to find some to kink with. Lol. I rarely talk about my libido and hypersexuallity because yanno sex =/= good gf material.

But I do like to poke fun at some of the chicks that post cleavage shots or sexy pics with a "I'm lly", then a few days later they post a blog asking why soo mamy guys message looking for sex! Then I will blog about the glaring obvious and I will post a cleavage pic. Lol!

So ya, the milkshake brings the boys to the yard.

I have been working on my sense of humour to not piss off so many older guys and Americans...oh and the sexually repressed women ... but if men can openly search for much younger women then I should be able to search for younger men amiright

Plus when and where do you find compatible partners that also enjoy sex..(obvious my obsession)

Must remember that some will like your post, some will dislike it, some don't care either way. ๐Ÿ˜Š
Red dress
Posted:May 12, 2018 8:27 am
Last Updated:May 18, 2018 12:50 pm
Last minute invite to the Pacific Salmon Gala ....

And the food was absolutely delicious!
Plenty of husband hunters there though, so I didn't really bother looking.

Dressing up and going out,
sexy bloggers how often do you indulge in searching out great food?
Dressing up and going out?
Posted:May 4, 2018 9:39 pm
Last Updated:May 17, 2018 10:25 am
Frisky Friday night for this cat... I just couldn't hold back a minute longer.
The date couldn't make the weekend (dam family responsibility on both sides), but it was enough just having that thought of sex.
Sex on the mind and it's been driving my dreams.

Must be ovulating or something because I could even smell the men that where around me today.... and holy fuck there is one I have a crush on and let's just say he's been playing in my dreams also.
Hmm... but the smell of men, seems it was pretty easy to find the ones that piqued my primal side! I would catch thier scent on the breeze, taste it, let it warm up my ladybits ...pending the primal response would change the level of tingles.

Ah well, sexy bloggers
4 massive orgasms and I'm nice and relaxed now.... but still craving cock amd squirting.

But maybe cheesecake will fill that need for comfort and pleasure.
What are your indulgences? Sweets, savory, dreams, cars,.what have you...???
Yep Tues I think..
Posted:May 1, 2018 10:15 am
Last Updated:May 18, 2018 6:54 am
This is where it's nice to have that lover you can laugh with.

I have definitely busted out laughing when me or him would say something funny or out of place during sex. And for some reason the sex would become even more passionate wince the giggles settled out.

Enjoy the day sexy bloggers

My ladyboner is out of control this week....so much for working to keep it lowered. Lol. Every other thought I have is around sex. I have had some super erotic dreams the last few nights that I woke up with my hand pressed right on the ladybits just begging for his cock. (I really hope I don't talk in my sleep! .)
I have rubbed a few out every chance I get in the evening, but all its doing is increasing my desire for sex.

Yep.. ladywood leads to a ladyboner
Sinday mid mornin
Posted:Apr 29, 2018 11:09 am
Last Updated:May 16, 2018 12:10 pm

Well sexy bloggers let see if this works or not.

As many of you know I have been searching on standard dating sites and that isn't going very well (thanks 44 yr old age tag), so searching for younger men and it's been crickets so far...yada yada yada.

One thing that makes me laugh now is when I hear ads on the radio or on TV about sex and relationships. You know the advertising for the local adult shop that promotes fun times for couples, even the viagra commercials make me roll my eyes.
But why miss flower? Don't roll your eyes... because the struggle is real.

In my experience it's the men outside of relationships that want sex so they are not into what the sex shop is selling which is fun for couples. (obvious they are into viagra but I do chuckle when you can't tell if he's attached in the commercial)

Plus when a man wants a relationship the last thing he looks for is a sexually compatible partner because he's mainly looking for a cook/cleaner/share his hobby kind of person and sex is just a by-product done on occasion. So again he's not interested in what the ads are selling.
And of course many women pretend to enjoy sex to catch a man, but yanno guys you don't have to stay with her and reward her bad behavior with a relationship when she doesn't want sex anymore...yet they stay with her because to him sex isn't that important anyway. Lol

I had a local adult shop ask if I could put on a workshop around sex and kink. It sounds like a fun idea but I don't think many are ready to explore butts and female tops. Lol.

I seen an ad for a sex doll -> they are targeting couples and stating 'that it's impossible to find a sexually compatible relationship so let your husband fuck this doll and you can compromise that way! You both can be happy then!'
Yikes ok, ...

But I also overheard a few women ask where the sex doll is for the woman?!
So thank god there are some women out there that also want more sex. Lol
But many women need more stimulation than just an object to push in n out of the vag, or a clit vibe, even though I trained my body to orgasm in under 2 mins with a clit vibe it's not very satisfying.. (more a survival technique for having sex with most guys, I will be lucky to get an orgasm in unless I wait till he's done and gone so I can just masturbate alone instead).

Why isn't a healthy sex life a part of a healthy relationship?
Do men really just look for arm candy instead of a compatible partner?

When you are dating over 40 it's not about making a family or hanging out with the cool kids.
I require sexual compatibility with my relationships in order for me to even think about doing your laundry. Lol! Yes I get it - it's not fair that I desire sex when you just want a cleaning lady.... and it's not fair that I would hope you enjoy sex and be open to learning new things.

It's a unicorn hunt either way.
In the badlands
Posted:Apr 27, 2018 11:46 am
Last Updated:Apr 29, 2018 10:33 am
Way out in the country.... not quite banjo playing backwoods but close enough. Lol

It does make meeting new people pretty difficult and now add in my age...
So I will find new porn to keep me company and plan the social nights in the city.
The rope nights may happen maybe every 2 weeks, that is until the host of the house tries hooking up all the chicks and I lose the people that want to attend. Lol!
Just because I can organize events doesn't mean that I have anyone to hang out with at those events. No one else in the area wants to organize nights, and I need the socialization anyway.

(Please...just work picture... its not even a nudie)

I do laugh when people say that you need to put yourself out there in order to meet men, considering I have had all sorts of ads and profiles up, plus attend local events ... I still have yet to see the festival of sausages that many women claim happens. Lol!!
(Ya just because I'm female doesn't mean I have it easy when it comes to meeting men, it comes down to age/attractiveness around these parts)(if I didn't post or go to events I would never get a message. Lol.)

Maybe they are busy chasing after thier trucks.

Sexy bloggers,
How often do you go out to socialize outside of your immediate set of friends?
Do you try something new (new place, pub, group, event) or stick to same kind of venue?
Any adult events or workshops that would interest you?
Posted:Apr 23, 2018 7:25 pm
Last Updated:Apr 26, 2018 9:30 am
fantasy that still gets my mind racing and blood hot is the stag n vixen lifestyle.
It's not a cuck lifestyle, which for the most part is based on more a cheating ideals and usually humiliation and degradation.


Yes it would be hot to have a willing partner to share it with. Ya I know not many men are into this hence why I said fantasy. Lol. Plus I have to look for monogamy now because that's the preferred dating style of most men in my area. (I know shocker right).

But it still surprises me that most men prefer lower sex drive women for 'relationships' Yes I'm still adjusting lol

Now where was I going with this...
Reclaim sex would be fuckin hot! Lol

Sexy bloggers,
Alternative sexy fun within a partnership -> have you tried it?

(fwb/fb/SO kinda thing not a hookup)

Not really looking for the pov from the guy that wants to be a 'bull' or the second male, I would like to hear from men and women that have been in a 'relationship' that have been successful with exploring!
Because apparently I have to find some monogamous then wait a few before asking if he wants to explore anything interesting including more sex from me, kink, massage, group sex, stag/vixen.... you know the drill. Lol
Where you are located ๐Ÿค”
Posted:Apr 19, 2018 1:46 pm
Last Updated:Apr 25, 2018 10:31 am
Yep sexy bloggers!
Location is fraken everything


I'm in the badlands and all the good and even mediocre potentias are everywhere else.

How about you?
WHAT is it like to have hundreds or thousands of profiles to look through?

I have never experienced what a full or even lots of messages looks like, my inbox is as barren as any average males or so they claim...(except I hear that men get more messages than me in my area)

(Not including the obvious fake profiles, which in case I get one message a month if I don't get any other mail)
Country girl toys...
Posted:Apr 16, 2018 7:18 pm
Last Updated:Apr 20, 2018 7:57 pm
Yep the adult toys!

Silicone dicks don't replace a man (as much as many thinks that happens),
But yard work is soo much easier with a Hitachi!

Lame moanday humor, but I thought it was funny!!

Adult toys done country style. Lol

But our little mini excavator will have to do for the yard work this spring, our machine is out working on another site.

Enjoy the tail end of the day sexy bloggers!
Chat and pic sharing...
Posted:Apr 15, 2018 3:49 pm
Last Updated:Apr 19, 2018 10:54 am
One thing that is really easy to find is sex chat or sexting, 'pic sharing', whatever you want to call but it's basically online nsa play with (usually) someone basically 'anonymous'. Unless you have met and dated or had sex, but it's still easier to find a guy looking for online play rather than real life. (yep I know from experience, I also know where to find it). ๐Ÿ˜

Anyway let's just say that my sex chat skillz are not 1 800 worthy. ๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜…ย 
Even with my past lovers and partners I would still prefer to just meet in real life and do those things that he wants to sext about. ๐Ÿ˜
Ya ya I get sometimes phone sex is hot and especially with someone anonymous, custom porn for free! (yep . these guys are everywhere on the dating sites). Plenty of photo collectors out there also. ๐Ÿ˜’ย 

So when it comes to men on dating sites demanding nude photos or sext chat before meeting (or even with the first few dates) I just ignore amd move on. Like I said there are sex sites to easily find a guy looking for online play, why use a dating site. AND yes there are plenty of women that enjoy the online play also, but I search for men not women.ย 

And then,ย 
So when the convo turns to sexual interests there can be a fine line between having an adult discussion and him fishing for sex chat. lol. Yes experience with this, and I bet I am not alone with this. Pretty much 4 out of 5 guys that I have chatted with in the last 8 yrs wanted online play and to not meet, or they would meet once then promise to meet again.. ๐Ÿ˜
Back to sex chat, the long way around, I am far more hands on and visual rather than pretend I am putting whatever in whatnot hole and fake moaning it. lol!ย 
Although I did humour my established partners with sexting, but it was not my preferred method of interaction. ๐Ÿ˜ย 

Netflix even did a show on 'addicted to sexting', and the shallow validation you receive from it. As long as both parties agree to it then have fun, but I will still prefer the hands on method (even if you are in camp).

Yes I Understand that some flirting has its place when meeting someone new, but can you just try to get to know the person before asking for sex chat. Lol.ย 

I won't ask how many are into sexting because your inbox would explode with men looking for free custom porn. But some days it saddens me that he would rather play online rather than meet, but also experience shows that there is a good chance he is not as single as he claims.... ย lol!ย 

Anyway sexy bloggers,
How often do you get hit up for sex chat on dating sites?
Or fish for sex chat or "pic sharing" on a dating site?

(Obviously not written for this site as I and referring to actual dating sites)

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