We are a happy playful couple in a committed, caring, and loving relationship (23 yrs.) who enjoy a discreet D/s relationship and kinky BDSM erotic play (we are vanilla on the outside, kinky on the inside). We have been exploring/enjoying BDSM kink for more than a dozen years and include bondage, role-play, spanking, floggers & whips, etc. in our sexual play. We also enjoy attending sex positive events, play parties, and BDSM conferences (e.g. Metro Vancouver Kink, Rascals, Westcoast Bound, Vancouver Edge). We seek friendships with couples (m/f, f/f ) who either enjoy safe, sane, and consensual erotic BDSM play, or are curious about exploring some of the “fifty shades” of BDSM (bondage, domination and submission, sadomasochism). We hope to meet others who we can share our D/s BDSM sexuality with in a manner not possible with our vanilla friends. We are open to a wide variety of sexual expression, accepting of differences, and respectful of limits/boundaries. We would like to begin with dinner and conversation - we promise no pressure and no head games. If we develop friendship based on mutual trust and respect, we are open to sharing BDSM and erotic play with others. We are a kinky open minded D/s couple who enjoy bdsm play, discussing/sharing ideas for kinky bdsm play with others, learning from others. We have experience playing in front of/watching others. Our focus and interest is predominantly in sharing kink. We are monogamous, not into cyber-sex, exchanging photos, camming, or full swap (although some soft play between females might be a possibility). We are open, honest, accepting, and respectful of limits/boundaries. We are professionals with very public careers and are very discrete – we expect the same in return !!! In our free time during the summer months we enjoy sailing as often as we can get away, and in the winter skiing at Whistler. If our profile peaks your curiosity, send us an email and we would be happy to answer any questions. G&a Or should it be "fifty shades with G&a"?

My Ideal Person Couples or woman either interested in/experienced with/or curious about safe, sane consensual erotic bdsm play.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Urolagnia (Water Sports/Urine), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Hard Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Leather, Fisting, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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