PLEASE MESSAGE ME as I am unable to return flirts or send mail... Hello…. I have recently come back to North America and have moved Toronto after 22 years of endless summer... When I came back to the North America I wanted to do something totally different but quintessentially American so I picked the East Coast - it is almost a foreign land to me; being from the West Coast so it fit into my sense of adventure and desire for exotic locales... After growing up in Arizona and having lived for 22 years almost precisely on the opposite side of the planet where the winter rarely if ever brings you a morning of less than 10 degrees, I thought that what could be more of an extreme than a winter in Maine - after that I could handle anything.! So...I bought a summer home and spent the winter in Maine waiting to be snowed in with 10 foot drifts...which didn't happen...and the three pairs of snow shoes that I bought have yet to be used... I spent the last 12 months in Maine getting used to being back in America and am now inToronto and am looking for a place nearer the water as I love to row and kayak. I hear the winters are not too bad in Toronto but... I would love to get to know a strong, independent, passionate woman or couple and have a clandestine affair; one that adds spice to our lives and heat to our thoughts – both when together and when apart. I have no interest in changing my circumstances but would love to have some discrete and naughty passion... I have plenty of free time to devote to your pleasure and entertainment as I am a bachelor most weekdays...so evenings are possible and the occasional sleepover if that rocks your boat...

My Ideal Person More than anything I am attracted to unique individuals; women who know who they are and are happy with being themselves; who do not feel compelled to 'go with the flow' and just get along.

For what it's worth, I'm well educated, having received post grad degrees in the US and Overseas. The "for what it's worth" comes from the fact that I haven't used my education to earn money in a decade or more. I love study and seem to be quite good at it and am a bit of an intellectual but for a vocation, I prefer people contact where they walk away happy. As a lawyer that didn't happen that often...

SO, the type of woman that I'd like to spend time with would be one that could carry her self well in a wide range of topics...after all, it's more about the mind than the body...but not take herself too seriously as I don't take me seriously at all!

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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