I am looking for a long term relationship.If you're not into an LTR, don't waste your time writing. The ideal man for me would be somewhat into the BDSM lifestyle. He would spank me until his hand turned red. Light S&M is definitely a plus. I like forcible sex once in a while. My man wouldn't mind watching me get myself with my fingers or a toy, or he might do it for me. Also, he wouldn't get jealous watching me have sex with another woman, he might even join in.

My Ideal Person I am looking for someone who is playful, spontaneous, who is experimentative and loves to try new things. I need someone who will let me keep the spice in our love life without thinking I'm too kinky. Also, anyone who knows a girl who wants to have sex with me is a definite PLUS!!

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Elvis Costello, Sarah McLachlan, The Shins, Dave Mattews, Psychedelic Furs, English Beat

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
Under a waterfall, on the beach in Maui

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Leather, Latex, Fisting

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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