UPDATE: I've allowed standard members to contact me, but if your profile's turned off it's rather difficult to respond to winks and such. And as a courtesy for YOUR safety as well as mine, don't include your private email account information in your comments to my profile; that opens up a huge vulnerability to your private files and information. There's a lot of clowns out there trolling for victims; don't bait the hook for them. I'm a stocky, straight, 5'10", degreed professional, looking for ladies interested in conversations over coffee (the local Starbucks are my favorites) that could lead to more pleasant pasttimes. As the profile says, I am attached; however, there is no sexual relationship due to her medical issues. I have no intention of leaving her, but I have no medical complications that inhibit my sexual appetite, hence my presence here. If that displeases you, then move on; I'm not here to be judged, nor shall I judge you. I prefer one-on-one encounters, and willingly accept prompting as to what you like and prefer. I enjoy the giving & receiving of massages, fondlings, kissing, licking, nibbling, and conventional sex; no leather, no chains, no whips, just you & I and our imaginations. I work in the DC Metropolitan area, live in north-western MD, and can meet you for lunch or after work to see how things go and if there's a spark. Afterwards, who knows? A facial picture is available, but discretion is the key. I value my privacy, and I'll value yours. I enjoy jogging (a 2+-mile walk/jog each day or as weather permits; cut back a bit) and weightlifting, prefer coffee to liquor/beer, enjoy reading (fiction as well as fact), and am reasonably conversant on national, internation, and scientific issues. I'm D/D free and intend to stay that way - as much as I'd enjoy seizing the opportunity to explore you right off the bat upon our first meeting, I don't know you and have no intention of later finding out I've contracted a long drawn-out form of suicide. We go slow and see where things lead us. Life gives us baggage, and we all carry our share of baggage - It's what we do with it that makes us who we are. My baggage includes the good things in life and fond memories, as well as those less desirable events that are called Lessons. I am a complete person, and improving every day - you should be, too. If you're looking for a man without baggage, you're looking for a myth. If you want a man who lives in the present, plans for the future, and remembers Life's Lessons and applies them every way I can, that's more realistic and obtainable. Am I perfect? Nope. Am I working on it? Yes, ma'am, every day.

My Ideal Person Ladies, I'm not interested in your male counterpart if you're a couple (I don't care how cute you think he is); I'm interested in you, and my appetite doesn't extend to making our encounter a spectator sporting event. Your build can be slim to ample in build, with curves to fondle and taste, 5' to 6', hair of any color and length. A lady whose smile delights and intrigues me beats a great looking woman who can't smile for fear of ruining her make-up any day of the week.

No drugs, non- or light-smokers (I want to taste, smell, and touch/feel you, not an ashtray). I do enjoy a drink (wine, mixed or straight drinks, or beer [out of a long neck or can or into a glass]) and would join you for drinks to get to know each other - but I am the walking definition of a social drinker - one or two and that's it; while I'm concentrating on making you smile, laugh, and be happy I want full control of my thoughts and actions.

I know you have your expectations as well. I'm clean, well-dressed, articulate, a good cook, an artist, and (from what I've been told) a talented lover - the youngest was 8 years younger than I, the oldest was 10 years older, so all ladies in their 30s to 60s can apply for the position...or any position you prefer.

If you're interested, let me know. I'm looking forward to hearing from you.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Brandon Marsalis, Lindsey Buckingham, Roy Clark

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Chance encounter with a ravishing woman in a public place
(store, library, mall), she wanders over to stand near
me, looking at me, smiling. Walks past, accidently brushing
against me. We strike up a conversation, coffee, lunch/dinner,
then we ... furthur explore each other's imagination,
desires, and feelings.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Mutual Masturbation, "Regular" Sex

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
None are that appealing - too plastic (in more ways than
1...or 2).

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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