for those who have my email, feel free to contact me there I am here to see what is out there. most other sites that i've been on contains a lot of 'bots' and empty promises and i've heard that this is the place to be. I am in a good marriage without any kind of sex life and i am trying to fill that void. I am outgoing, athletic, active, clean and fun. Discretion is a must and attraction also needs to be there (mentally and physically). Please be local and in a similar situation as myself (married or attached and not seeking to change that situation). Lets just go out and have fun and see where it takes us. in addition, i'm a 'board poster' on the LI boards here. PLEASE PUT THIS WARNING ON YOUR PROFILE EVERYONE. WARNING: Any institutions using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects - You do NOT have my permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum; both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and you will be subject to legal ramifications.

My Ideal Person looking for someone who is seeking a nsa d/d free fun friend. i am married and would like someone who is married as well, as they maybe in a similar situation. i don't want to change anything in my marriage, just looking for some fun, as i am currently lacking that.
someone who is patient and all, as i've been out of practice for a long time now.
if not married, be someone who can accept the fact that i am, and not willing to change that.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
tbd

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Mutual Masturbation, Voyeurism, Blindfolds, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Lucy Liu, Kelly Hu, Jennie Kwan,

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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