I am a recently widowed man at 43 year old guy. With my wife's passing I now truly understand life is much too short. I need to experience all that life has to offer, inside and outside the bedroom. I am desperately looking for women with a wild side, couples and possibly even another guy.

My Ideal Person My ideal person would be a mature, woman who knows what she wants and can communicate it. Also it has been my fantasy to be with a couple who can help me experience the things I didn't in my marriage.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
James Taylor, Guns and Roses, The Who, CCR, Rolling Stones

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
To meet a woman, or even a man, who takes total control of
me. Who teaches and forces me to do things that I have not
done before, to be forced to dress like a lady. To expand
my horizons, like it or not.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Hard Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Cross Dressing, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Leather, Latex, Massage

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Marisa Tomei, After seeing the Wrestler. Anna Nicole Smith,
the total package. And Tommy Lee Jones

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've done it so many times that I've forgotten how to type with two hands.

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